At least Lightwave applies the same principle (I’m not familiar with all 3D programs).
And you shouldn’t have to flip before you export : if it is flipped OK in Modo, it should be OK in Poser (I don’t own Poser). And as mentioned, if you’re in doubt, just switch on the double-sided option.
But you should pay attention to the format in which you export to Poser. Not all 3D-programs import/export every format correctly. Just check which formats Poser accepts, experiment a bit and go with the one that gives the best results.
(if you need it, software exists that converts specifically between 3D-formats. But that should not be necessary in this case, I guess)
A shame you’re not using the Modo renderer, though 