Use Physical sun/sky.
(sits back and waits for LowJack)
No, in seriousness, are you sure you can’t find a good HDRI somewhere? What about the ones here: http://www.hdrlabs.com/sibl/archive.html ? is there nothing there that’s close enough to the type of light you’re after?
Choosing an HDRI is really only the first step in lighting your scene though, as I’m sure you realise. How you get to the result you’re after is the tricky part. Folks on here can (and will) offer you advice, but each of us only has our own picture of what you’re trying to achieve and it probably doesn’t look anything like your own. As such, our advice can only ever be of limited use.
What’s most important is to have a clear idea in your mind what you want the scene to look like. The best way to do this is to find a photograph you like and set that as your target. I’d advise trawling sites like flickr.com and pbase.com and find something to aim for. Once you have that, the rest is just a question of technique.
I normally find that once I have a clear idea of what I’m aiming for, the rest just falls into place. If you find the image you want and are still struggling to make your own work match it, then everyone on here can help you get there.
Without pictures we’re all just fumbling in the dark 