Abby: Okay, I’m back … I do use very soft pencils, they don’t destroy the tooth of the paper and I like the texture of the paper showing in the work. I use very soft strokes or small circular strokes so that the actual pencil stroke doesn’t show, the texture of the paper does. I lift the dark areas with a kneeded eraser, carfully as not to smudge (Unless that’s what I want inwhich case I use “stumps” or blending sticks … then again that’s more on smooth bristal board where I want an almost photographic smoothness to the image) I also use a chamis (sp) cloth like they use to polish cars.
NR43: See the above for the use of the pencils. Background. I’ve drawn since I was 2. It’s an obsession with me. I also have a BA in Fine Art from the University of Wyoming. I’ve done portraits for quite a few years … even been paid for a few. I love doing emotion/fantasy illustration drawings and 3d art. Also most of these studies are from books. Barcsay’s “Anatomy for the Artist”, John H. Vanderpoel’s “The Human Figure”, and Peck’s “human anatomy for the artist”.
Rebeccak: Thank you so much for noticing. I know you are busy. Your comments are greatly appreciated. I will add more shortly.
derseemann: Thank you. I was told as a small child that you can tell a good artist from a poor artist in how they draw hands and feet. So I challenged myself.
Intervain: Thank you as well. I always wanted my work to look 3d even as a child back in the 50’s and 60’s … (pointing out that it was before computer graphics became readily available) so shading is the trick to that and I’ve used several shading techniques to do that … especially having the shadows meet at the 3/4 point of the figure. It doesn’t always work, but generally with pencil drawings it accomplishes the effect.
Thank you all, I hope to translate my traditional artistic background into computer generated skills with all of your help. 
Peace
Boni