Bob sells frisbees out of his home, and has a good reputation in his community. Virtually everyone likes the frisbees he sells, even though they cost $30. One day, Tom buys one of Bob’s frisbees. Tom begins to tell everyone in the community that Bob’s frisbees don’t fly, and attempts to demonstrate this to the neighborhood by throwing the frisbee incorrectly.
Many members of the community respond that they are happy with the frisbees they bought from Bob. Bob is upset with Tom, but offers Tom’s money back if he will return the frisbee. Tom returns the frisbee, but Bob learns that Tom has been incorrectly throwing the frisbee, convincing some of the neighbors that Bob’s frisbees don’t fly.
At this point Bob could have graciously returned Tom’s $30 dollars, demonstrated to the community that his frisbees do fly, and possibly received a net benefit from the publicity generated by the whole affair. However, angered by the lost sales, he refused to return Tom’s $30. In doing this Bob gave Tom extra incentive and a powerful moral argument in his continued harassment of Bob and his frisbee shop.
Now the issue was no longer whether Bob’s frisbees could fly, and the fact that most users of Bob’s frisbees were enthusiastically praising them didn’t really matter. The point debated by many in the community was whether Bob was right in keeping Tom’s money. Now, every time Bob went out to try to sell some frisbees, Tom always popped up and told everyone how Bob’s frisbees don’t fly, and if you try to get your $30 dollars back, Bob will just keep it.
Undoubtedly, Bob’s frisbee sales were hampered by Tom’s statements. In the end, the damage to both men’s reputations far exceeded the value that either one of them could have placed on the $30 over which they fought. Bob never chose to take the high road, give back the $30, and get back to selling frisbees. Friends and neighbors of both men avoided them, not desiring to get caught up in the feud between the two men.
Eventually, their tale was immortalized by the Academy-award winning director, Martin Scorcese, in a movie in which none of the characters are motivated by anything other than rabid racism and bigotry, murderous greed, lust for power, and an all-consuming desire for revenge.
In a related note, the movie lost a record 300 million dollars, which was primarily due to the decision to use Martin Hash’s Animation:Master for the special effects and CG shots. Despite this setback, Scorcese and Hash are teaming up to produce Telepresence II.