Dear ThE_JacO, I see in your signature you quote Oscar Wilde, here’s another Oscar Wilde quote seemingly relevant to this topic…
I believe xURIELx has displayed rather nicely that he is capable of admitting fault and apologizing when someone can take the time and energy to really explain it clearly, but regardless of his ability to do so, others are not. Communication is a two way street. This is a forum it’s first and foremost purpose is communication. In order to communicate people have to be as equally able to listen as they are to speak… or in this case type. Again and again I keep running across so many that have a lot to say but they don’t listen very well and therefore communication collapses… not beneficial to a forum.
If one is a forum leader, moderator, teacher, counselor they must be able to view things from multiple perspectives… a good artist should be able to do so as well… otherwise the result is flat… 1 dimensional… and it is not possible to bullshit your way into convincing people there are multiple dimensions.
What I do not understand is why it is suggested that artists post their works in the WIP forum to understand why their pieces are rejected if it is not possible to give them the reason? Why can’t that be removed and instead explain that giving a reason as to why their painting was declined is not possible because art judges are too busy and over worked? I mean people are just doing what is suggested to them.
Can you imagine having trouble with your car, you take it to the mechanic to get the car fixed, and instead you have to listen to all kinds of people that just walk into the garage from the street that take guesses at what the problem with the car is? You would want to scream and shake some people too after a while. It is only logical and then when you start screaming and shaking people the mechanics and garage owner comes out and says you have a bad attitude and start calling you names… it is surreal. Perspective people… try it with more than your art…