Sanne-Chan:
Wierd! I’ve never heard that before. Can you point me towards somewhere I can read more about that? That explains some things I’ve noticed about children : )
The wave:
excellent anecdotes. I love the “murder your darlings” part. I’ve always told my students to do that, though I never had such a macabre phrasing for it. You have to let go of that part of the drawing that you love so much, or soon the whole thing centers around that one part, and it becomes difficult to progress. My brothertold me something that has always stuck with me, and that was, “once you mess up a piece (of art), its the most liberating thing in the world, because now you can do anything you want to it. It usually turns out better than the piece you’d originally envisioned” or something like that. I personally feel like a piece cannot be condsidered finished until I have completely reworked it at least 2 or 3 times.
Unah in particular gets very frustrated. She’s upset that she cannot draw like me. To which I reply, “if you could draw like me, I wouldn’t need to be here teaching you.” I try to get them to accept where they are at, so that they can move forward. She draws for a couple minutes and then dramatically leans back and exclaims “its TERRIBLE! I’ll never draw good!! wahhhhh!” Nevermind the fact that the drawing is already beautiful, and just needs more work. They are both very talented and creative, which is why I was excited to teach them. Instead I get a lot of resistance from them, like you often do between children and teachers. How do I get them to look up to me and learn willingly? I think that one problem is that its only once a week. I wish I had the time to go over there more often.
), I would cry and hide under my bed for the next five weeks.
