What failures???
Last time i checked all the people that Succeeded BIG TIME in life or some or other competition, or simply because the best were the ones that were serious about what they did and focused on one thing and one thing only SUCCESS.
How can i fail if i do my best and keep REAL about what is gonna help me to win? Sure i understand that i may not win, regardless of how hard i try, how good i am, how REAL and seriously determined i am, but thats all outside of my control, just cause other may shove my work back in my face and send me packing, does not mean i should work towards such an end as opposed to making a success.
Now maybie you had some deeper more philosophical meaning by what you said, like maybie i’ll lose out on friends and contacts or other Relationships with people by being driven only by the desire to win.
If so then allow me to demonstrate.
In school i failed because i chose FRIENDS and fun over being serious and determined to do the best i can, with my band, again i chose FUN over blood, sweat and tears, and thus nobody took us seriously and that failed.
To make OTHERS feel happy and comfortable and find me FUN to be around i wasn’t serous about myself and the person i really am, and for that i went through many sad days in my life, simply because i was the FUN guy instead of myself.
I don’t pretend and i’m no liar, i am not gonna be the FUN and Friendly guy and ontop of that a liar by saying saying something thats not true, like - I’m just going to have fun and learn as much as i can.
It’s not that i did anything wrong or offensive, i just didn’t conform to the NORM - if you want normal, i’m not your man - i’m an individual, and i will, speak, act, think and be motivated as such.
If people think so low of themselves (or so honestly - if they know they dont stand a chance to win) then sure, i suppose having Fun and sicializing and possibly learning becomes the next PRIZE. I dont want to rob them of that, i just dont want to be seen as THE FREAK for having a different focus - i AM good enough to compete, and i could very well win - i;m not gonna pretend otherwise.
BUt i dont want to Put words in your mouth, please elaborate on what you mean t by failures.
REMEMBER what i said - “IF you dont know how to fix it, dont call it broke” dont say something and then be vague in the explination.
I dont mind PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS, but that which you said was something you could have kept to yourself, as it delivers a blow to an area of which you know very little- the REAL ME and my life, personality and FUTURE. Don’t simply assume i may have hardship further along in life if you merely read a few short posts o f mine in this thread. THings arent always what they seem at first glance, maybie it is YOU who will have the troubles with your OBSERVATIONS, who knows?
but this discussion/explination of myself is not going anywhere, so for now i’ll just go ponder over my theme for the challenge and see i f i can cause some troubles for myself further along in my future, hey if you said it it must be so righ?
have a nice day